Angels… …….You Might Want to Notice Them It seems seasonally appropriate to discuss “angels” and how they might appear in your life, without your fully realizing it. I recount an event that happened to Paul and me: Fifteen years ago, my husband, Paul Wesley Gates, was hit on a mountain road in Asheville, North Carolina,…
We were at the little clam shack we frequented over the years, when we biked the 14 mile route from one picturesque town to this other. You see, I always needed a carrot—an incentive to get me through the rigors of the long bike ride from Barrington to Quito’s in Bristol was that. Now that…
My life is ever-evolving. At almost 80 years old, I’m a comedian. That’s right…I make audiences laugh. Right through the tough topic I’m talking about—Alzheimer’s—the disease that’s been the uninvited guest in my husband’s and my life for the past 15+ years. Here’s how my speaking goes…. Following the event host’s intro, I gingerly go…
Thirteen years of sole caregiving to a husband with Alzheimer’s makes me an expert and in that capacity, I share my tips and suggestions with others.
I needed my hair done for a major book presentation and sought my long time hair stylist who’s seen me through many events (weddings, etc.) Problem? Donna Simonelli (her photo’s on the right) would be on vacation in Costa Rica. So, she offered her friend/stylist Christine Corio DiBenedetto, whom I also knew, to stand in…
David Quiroa, Exec. Director of Cranston Dept of Senior Services says: “On Tuesday, September 24th in collaboration with the Cranston Public Library and Blue Cross Blue Shield of R.I. we were honored to host a local author, Colleen Kelly Mellor. I have to say that this presentation by Ms. Mellor has been by far the most…
Come to my informative talk and be ready for the role you’ll probably take on, as Caregiver, in your lifetime.
Az and Me: A Partner’s Journey with Alzheimer’s Two years of writing this….Countless hours editing…Knowledge acquired over 10 years as sole caregiver to my husband who has Alzheimer’s…many months of working with others who graciously gave me their time in support of a project they believe in (helping those who are caregivers for the cognitively…
Did you know that 58% of all vet families do not apply for—or get—death benefits for their deceased veteran? (A situation I hope to change in “Az and Me: A Partner’s Journey with Alzheimer’s” bc I offer all sorts of tips to families on ALL topics (not just military). ***Many of my generation (70-95+) were…
A Caregiver’s First Duty and Commitment Reflecting over this past year, I am mindful of how very fortunate Paul and I have been. My decision to place Paul in a long-term care facility was a wrenching one; I was so very afraid; I wanted him safe but I didn’t want him staring at institutional walls…
